day 2 - giving my thanks project
I have worked with a lot of amazing supervisors (and some not so amazing) since the start of my career. One of the best lessons I learned from one (amazing) woman I worked for is the power of the "passed-on compliment." She had this knack for always mentioning when you were brought up in a conversation or praised by another person. It's like a double compliment - knowing someone though enough of you to mention you and someone else thought enough of you to pass along the praise. I realized a while ago that I adopted that behavior from her.
At my check-up dentist appointment yesterday I re-affirmed how little mentions can build further connections between people....
Conversation 1 (about a month ago) -
Periodontist: Your gums are healing beautifully.
Me: Great. So I'm back to Dr. H now? He said you do great work so he didn't expect any complications.
Perio: Dr. H- said I do great work? (smiling)
Me: Yep, I told him of my not so thrilling experience at the other clinic so he sent me to you because he knew your work and knew I wouldn't have an issues.
Perio: Hmm, well that's great to know!
And the conversation yesterday while getting a crown refitted...
Me: It's too bad the original temp didn't want to stay in my mouth. The resident assisting Dr. G though the temp crown was the real deal. Dr. L- told her you do an amazing sculpting job on your temps.
Dentist: Really, Dr. L- said that?
Me: Yeah, he said you were one of the best at getting a lifelike tooth structure with less than ideal materials.
Dental Assistant: (chuckling) We'll, that two more patient referrals for Dr. L-!
Yep, just passing my time in the dentist chair building bridges in the dental community. And they need all the help they can get considering the high suicide rate for dentists. I'm so not kidding about that - Google it...